Open Relationship Contract Template

Alternatively, you can download the PDF HERE.

This contract concerns the responsibilities and privileges of an ethically non-monogamous relationship. Both parties named below agree to the arrangement as outlined. Furthermore, this contract is intended for use as a guideline, is not legally binding, and can be renegotiated at any time either party so chooses.

 

  1. Names: ____________________________________ & ______________________________________

 

  1. Emotional Monogamy or Polyamory (If you intend to have emotional commitment only between parties named in this contract, that will be emotional monogamy. Dating/multiple relationships with others is considered polyamory): Monogamy                         Polyamory

 

  1. Activities that are limited to the parties in this agreement (ie: no kissing allowed with others, only anal with each other, etc):

____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

 

  1. People who are off limits to both parties in this contract (ie: family members, specifically named individuals, etc):

______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

 

  1. What days of the week are outside activities allowed?

 

Monday               Tuesday               Wednesday        Thursday             Friday                    Saturday              Sunday

 

  1. Other notes about frequency of activities (ie: only once per year, not during menstruation, etc):

_______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

 

  1. How much does each party want to know about the other’s activities (circle one each)?

 

Person 1: ______________________________________________

 

Everything                          Basic Information                             Only if I ask                         Nothing

 

Person 2: ______________________________________________

 

Everything                          Basic Information                             Only if I ask                         Nothing

 

 

  1. What sort of outside relations can each partner have (circle all that apply)?

 

Person 1: ______________________________________________

 

One Night Stand               Casual Fuck Buddies       Ongoing Friends With Benefits                  Relationships

 

Person 2: ______________________________________________

 

One Night Stand               Casual Fuck Buddies       Ongoing Friends With Benefits                  Relationships

 

  1. Other notes about limitations of outside partners (ie: amount of partners at one time, no younger than 21, etc):

__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

 

  1. Is it acceptable for parties to actively search for other partners (ie: online dating sites)?

 

Yes                                                         No                                                          N/A

 

  1. Is it acceptable for both parties to engage in photography/videos with outside partners?

 

Yes                                                         No                                                          N/A

 

  1. Notes about expectation of protection (ie: must always use condoms, no bareback with strangers, etc):

____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

 

  1. What is the plan for an accidental pregnancy with outside partners?

____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

 

  1. Other notes about sexual health (ie: will get tested yearly, always have Plan B in house, etc):

__________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

 

  1. Are outside activities allowed in the partners’ shared residence?

 

Yes                                                         No                                          Only Together                                   N/A

 

 

 

 

  1. Other notes about locations (ie: only at sex club, only certain motels, etc):

____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

 

  1. Is this contract to remain private, or can friends/family know about it (circle one)?

 

Open                                                     Private

 

  1. Other notes about privacy:

_______________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

 

  1. Rules for hygiene (ie: must shower after outside activities, no sharing toys, etc):

____________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

 

  1. Additional notes:

________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________________

 

 

 

Date of commencement of this contract: _______________________________________________

 

 

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