Levels of Sexual Intensity

A friend recently asked me some complex questions about sex that required me to think about sexual activities in a different way. He asked me about the end goal of certain activities and what steps one might take to get there.

For instance, what is total domination? How do you start? What steps happen in between the beginning and the end?

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BDSM for Noobs


BDSM stands for Bondage & Discipline, Domination & Submission, and Sadism & Masochism. It’s a blanket term which includes a very long list of traditionally unconventional forms of sensuality. Though it is most often practiced in a sexual context – as a form of sex – it is not necessarily sexual in itself. Simply put: BDSM does not always include sex!

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